Monday, June 22, 2015

Dad's and Grad's sermon: "Words of Wisdom"

Mark 4
“Words of Wisdom’



            We are a people of stories.  Whether those stories are: history, literature, folk tales, or gossip, we tell stories, share stories, and hear stories.  Our lives are shaped by stories.  The stories of our own life memories, the stories of other people’s memories, and stories that are created out of various peoples’ lives.  Some stories can be painful and destructive, while other stories can be inspirational and compassionate.   Every once in awhile, a special nugget of wisdom falls upon us and makes a deep impact upon our lives.  In the book:  Walking the Bible, the writer shares that the stories of faith are stories that give life.  God is creating, God is forming, God is calling a people into being and then encouraging to grow in ways that reflect God’s story of life. 
In today’s parable, seed is being thrown and lands all over the place.  It almost seems a little reckless of the farmer to not sow the seed just in the field.  Seed, a metaphor for the word of God, or in our lives today: stories.  Stories of God, stories of people, stories of lives that celebrate the love and goodness of being God’s people.  But, we don’t all hear these stories the same way, we don’t all celebrate these stories the same way, we don’t all remember these stories the same way.  For some, we challenge them and push them away, for others we tuck them away as a part of our childhood, and for others, they land deep within ourselves, guiding our daily living.
I always find it interesting when you sit down with a group of people and ask them their favorite Bible story, or passage of scripture.  Very rarely, do people share the same story.  Each seed, each story, has fallen into the soil of our lives in different ways.  Each of us has the hard path, the rocky soil, the weeds, and the good soil within us.  When something falls within the good soil of our being, it impacts us, it stays with us, it grows within us and it becomes wisdom. 
            Wisdom, a special gift of words or actions that can give life meaning and purpose, it can inspire us to pursue a certain area of study and find a job in a specific field of interest.  Wisdom, it can get deep down inside of us and pull us in a direction we never thought we would head towards.             On this special day, where we honor our Fathers and our graduates, both pertain to wisdom.  As parents, fathers desire to provide for their children.  They work hard so that the family has a home, meals, clothes, and can participate in extra curricular activities.  As they nurture, stories are told and stories are made and along the way, children pick up insights from their fathers in how to navigate this world in which we live.  It could be a strong work ethic, it could be that of faith, it could be focused on being a good student or athlete, it could be on giving what you are doing your all. 
            As students, a  plethora of teachings has been bestowed upon you.  Some is remembered just for the test, some is not remembered at all, and some connects deeply into your being staying with you for the long hall.  Perhaps it was a science teacher that inspired you to be involved with environmental issues, or perhaps it was an English teacher that bestowed upon you the love of writing, or the math teaching that open up the world of numbers and equations that will focus you towards accounting.  Or a coach that has encouraged you to continue with a sport.  Throughout our lives, we are exposed to so much, so many stories, so much learning, so much knowledge, and each of us absorbs these nuggets of wisdom differently.  What inspires one student or child, bounces off the other and withers away. 
            There is a farmer or a father or a teacher that has seeds to sow.  And the Farmer or the Father or the teacher throws the seed out into the soil, upon the children or the students.  Some falls on the hard soil and is eaten by the birds.  Sometimes there is just too much information being given that you cannot absorb it all.  Or sometimes we are just not ready to a level of learning.  I’ve gone back over some old notes from classes and what made no sense to me at all when I was 18 now makes sense.  Or I’ll re-read a book that I just could not get through a few years ago and wonder why I didn’t like it the first time through.  Our inner hard paths can soften and change over time.  What seems like a reckless farmer might not be so reckless after all.  What might seem like a hard path in one point in our lives just might be fertile soil in years to come. 
Some of the seed falls on the rocky path and finds just enough soil to begin to grow but quickly dries out.  How many times does that happen?  We quickly get excited about something but we just fizzle out almost as quickly as we start.  “Hey dad, will you teach me to throw a football, or hit a baseball, or ride my bike?”  And then five minutes later, “let’s do something else.”  Attention spans are hard to navigate in life. 
Other seed falls upon the thorns and gets chocked.  Maybe we just have too much going on right now and other things get in the way.  We are good at overscheduling ourselves, how do I fit dance, and soccer, and theater and my studies and friends all into the mix?  We get way out of balance and often times something we love gets chocked because we just can’t do it all.  When I first started college I was overwhelmed with my schedule and trying to make friends and study. 
I went to a workshop on learning to create a healthy balance in my life.  We made a circle and divided it into sections.  I can’t remember the exact sections, but as many stories of our lives change a bit, this is how I remember it:  spiritual, emotional/social, physical, and intellectual.  We were then asked to divide the circle up in how we felt our lives currently were.  Mine was almost completely divided in half with physical and intellectual.  I was either in class, studying or on the soccer field.  We were then asked to divide a circle up with how we would like it to look.  My spiritual, and emotional/social part of my life was being chocked up.  Maybe not by weeds, but by my other activities.  We were then encourage to think about how to create new space in our lives for the other parts of our whole being.  Could we do that?  Maybe we were going to have to let go of something in order to let something else thrive.  Although I still have not mastered this, it was a nugget of wisdom that has stayed with me and I continually go back to it to try and keep myself as whole as I can. 

And other seed fell upon the good soil were it could grow and yield a healthy harvest.  This is the area that just brings results.  When children are inspired by a father’s teaching, a teacher’s subject matter, or hopefully, God’s scripture calling us to live a faithful life of compassion and purpose as we embrace stories of life and allow them to produce a full harvest of fruit within us.  Sometimes the teachings, the guidance, the advice, the way in which we want our children to embrace this life doesn’t seem to take root.  And that is part of why we need to create positive habits and rituals in our lives.  We need to till the soil, till the hard path, pull at the weeds, and continually throw out the seeds.  God understands the messiness of life.  God understands that we are not always ready to hear God’s teachings, stories of faith, or embrace words of wisdom.  But that does not stop God from tossing out the seed.  The seed is always being thrown, recklessly into the world, recklessly into our lives, because God is hopeful, God is abundant, and God does not give up on us, ever.  And there are some really special teachers, and coaches and parents out there that do the same thing.  They keep sowing love into their families, into their communities, and into the greater world.  And we thank them for their work, for it does make a difference and sometimes it takes years before the seed germinates in the soil.  

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